You know the Microsoft Minute?

A unit of time whose literal length is constantly changing due to rapid miscalculations of a computer wielding an operating system developed by Microsoft (i.e. Windows 95).

My husband had the brilliant idea to apply it to me and my various disabilities: the Manda Minute. To wit, “We’ll be out the door in five minutes!” will probably mean twenty, but it will change constantly as time progresses, and could end up being only eight minutes, or even — thought very rarely — two.

I try to be as honest as I can about time estimates, but there are so many fluctuating considerations and variables that it’s almost impossible to know for sure. I overestimate as it is, but chronic overestimation makes guessing useless anyway — if I say twenty minutes when it’s actually going to be five, what good am I doing anyone? and I’m going to be screwing with the medicine I have to plan out, the periods of activity and rest, and so forth.

Welcome to my life.