Comments on: Pain/trauma http://threeriversblog.com/2009/10/pain-trauma.html Fri, 03 Sep 2010 02:12:21 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: kitrona http://threeriversblog.com/2009/10/pain-trauma.html#comment-15620 kitrona Tue, 10 Nov 2009 07:10:05 +0000 http://threeriversblog.com/?p=759#comment-15620 I don't know what all this is about, but if I may, I offer you hugs. Nobody deserves to be treated like that, and you do have value; I love the bits of you that you put out, both here and at FWD. They seem to speak to things I've felt but not been able to put words to. I don't know if that helps, but I know that if anything happened to you, I would miss you and your words. I don’t know what all this is about, but if I may, I offer you hugs. Nobody deserves to be treated like that, and you do have value; I love the bits of you that you put out, both here and at FWD. They seem to speak to things I’ve felt but not been able to put words to.

I don’t know if that helps, but I know that if anything happened to you, I would miss you and your words.

]]> By: OuyangDan http://threeriversblog.com/2009/10/pain-trauma.html#comment-13575 OuyangDan Sun, 18 Oct 2009 14:22:28 +0000 http://threeriversblog.com/?p=759#comment-13575 *big gentle hugs* *big gentle hugs*

]]> By: meloukhia http://threeriversblog.com/2009/10/pain-trauma.html#comment-13558 meloukhia Sun, 18 Oct 2009 04:44:51 +0000 http://threeriversblog.com/?p=759#comment-13558 I have been thinking about this post all night. At first, I wanted to leave a comment, but didn't really know what to say. Felt like whatever I could say would be trite and meaningless. But, when you are raw, and you expose yourself, it's kind of nice to know that someone has your back. That someone cares. That someone else is unhappy with what is going on, with the way that you are being treated. It's easy to feel like you have no value when no one speaks to say that you have value. So. You have value. You can and should criticize. I value your criticism. I value you. And so do many others. People who attempt to devalue you are only devaluing themselves. And it sucks and is uncool that they are triggering you and chipping away at you in the process. I wish I could make that stop, but I can't. All I can do is stand with you. *hugs* I have been thinking about this post all night. At first, I wanted to leave a comment, but didn’t really know what to say. Felt like whatever I could say would be trite and meaningless.

But, when you are raw, and you expose yourself, it’s kind of nice to know that someone has your back. That someone cares. That someone else is unhappy with what is going on, with the way that you are being treated.

It’s easy to feel like you have no value when no one speaks to say that you have value.

So. You have value. You can and should criticize. I value your criticism. I value you. And so do many others. People who attempt to devalue you are only devaluing themselves. And it sucks and is uncool that they are triggering you and chipping away at you in the process. I wish I could make that stop, but I can’t. All I can do is stand with you.

*hugs*

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