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		<title>Friday Catblogging and This Moment&#8217;s Roundup</title>
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<hr style="border: 1px solid #cccccc; height: 1px; width: 100%; color: #ffffff; margin-top: 30px; margin-bottom: 30px;" size="1" noshade="noshade" />Pizza Diavola <a href="http://pizzadiavola.wordpress.com/2009/07/17/shorter-peter-singer-being-disabled-sucks-or-how-to-wallow-in-ablism/">deconstructs</a> the recent Peter Singer NYT article. The introduction:</p>
<blockquote><p>An acquaintance of mine shared a post that linked to Peter Singer’s latest piece in the NYT Magazine, “<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/07/19/magazine/19healthcare-t.html?_r=1&amp;pagewanted=all">Why We Must Ration Healthcare</a>.” Most of the article focuses on the fact that health care is currently rationed in the U.S., whether by price or by less tangible factors such as ER wait times. I don’t disagree with that part; that’s nothing more than a clear-eyed look at the reality that the American health care system has barriers to accessibility. Where Singer goes off the rails for a demonstration of Able-Bodied Privilege 101, however, is when he discusses how to put a value on human lives as a precursor to putting a value on health care. In order to demonstrate the utility of quality-adjusted life-year (QALY) in rationing health care, he uses the example of how an able-bodied person reacts to a hypothetical situation in which they become quadraplegic, and how their desire to live changes. He then goes on to present a situation in which persons with disabilities (PWD) are damned if they do and damned if they don’t: he suggests that if a PWD is happy with their life, they don’t need any treatment that would improve their lives, and if a PWD is not happy with their life, then it would be wasteful to spend money on treatment that would improve their lives.</p></blockquote>
<p><a href="http://pizzadiavola.wordpress.com/2009/07/17/shorter-peter-singer-being-disabled-sucks-or-how-to-wallow-in-ablism/">I consider this a must-read for anyone who is new to disability rights</a>. Pizza Diavola does an excellent job showing where Singer&#8217;s logic simply falls apart, and in fact his arguments do not make sense without assuming the supremacy of the able body. But disability is not an <em>inherently</em> bad experience; it only becomes this phenomenon of tragedy and suffering when society refuses to provide support for people of all sorts, rather than upholding the narrow and unstable health ideal.</p>
<p>Following Singer&#8217;s logic, we would pretty much <em>never</em> seek to improve our lives in any way because to do so would admit that we were not happy with our lives beforehand, and if we were happy with it, then it would be useless to do anything to change it. How this is seen as a rational analysis of New York Times caliber, I&#8217;m not sure. But apparently Peter Singer hates the wheel, the microwave oven, cotton fabric (admitting that life wasn&#8217;t good enough without versatile and insulating body covering!), the printing press, public education, agriculture, language, music, sunscreen, and buildings (admitting that life wasn&#8217;t good enough without shelter from the elements!). Among other things.</p>
<p>But <em>because</em> disability is constructed as a tragedic deviation, we end up with nonsensical, circular arguments such as these. And it has unfortunate influence, and will further marginalize people on the basis of their inherent inferiority and thus forfeited right to life (<em>any</em> life, according to Singer, who would have us all killed or otherwise eliminated rather than complicating things for the currently abled &#8212; and no, unfortunately, this is not exaggeration or extrapolation; he has advocated exactly this).</p>
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<h3><a href="http://fridawrites.blogspot.com/2008/03/help-find-cure-for-disablism.html">Help Find the Cure for Disablism!</a></h3>
<p>Disablism is a common disorder which can begin in early childhood, though its symptoms are often much more marked in adulthood. Without preventative measures, disablism can grow into a chronic condition that becomes more difficult to cure with time. Early detection and proper treatment are key to helping those with disablism lead stronger, more productive lives.</p>
<p><strong>FAQs</strong><br />
<strong> </strong><br />
<strong>Is disablism contagious?</strong><br />
The jury is still out on this question. While some epidemiologists believe disablism may have a contagious aspect and may spread virulently, other researchers emphasize individual health habits and responsibilities.</p>
<p><strong>What is the treatment?</strong><br />
Treatment varies by the degree to which the patient is affected. Treatment focuses on creating new, nondisablist behaviors. For patients unrectifiably deficient in empathy, legal remedies may be required. Please ask your doctor for more details.</p>
<p><strong>What can I do?</strong><br />
Most importantly, educate yourself about disablism. Ask your health care provider, &#8220;am I disablist?&#8221; Equally important, watch for early signs of disablism in your loved ones and seek early treatment. Disablism is much more cureable in its early stages than when its victims become homicidal or harm others. In addition, help raise awareness about disablism. Discuss disablism and its harmful effects with others.</p>
<p>For more information and resources on disablism, call the Cure Disablism Network at 1-555-BE HUMAN.</p></blockquote>
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<p style="text-align: left;">This clip from British tv show <em>That Mitchell and Webb Look</em> has made the rounds as a short and sweet parody of gendered advertising. I think it is also useful as a look at medicalization and the way medical conditions are presented in popular culture.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Transcript:</p>
<blockquote><p>[<em>Blonde, average-looking woman standing in front of white background, reacting to voiceover by crouching and grimacing, with graphic overlay of radiating circles emphasizing different areas</em>]<br />
<strong>Woman</strong>: Ow. My stomach!<br />
<strong>Man&#8217;s voice</strong>: Do you suffer from gut agony?<br />
<strong>Woman</strong>: And my head!<br />
<strong>Man&#8217;s voice</strong>: Tension head? [<em>Woman nods, grimacing</em>] Got that bloated feeling?<br />
<strong>Woman</strong> [<em>beginning to look slightly surprised and self-conscious</em>]: Ooh&#8230;<br />
<strong>Man&#8217;s voice</strong>: Inevitable wrinkles? The beginnings of lady moustache? [<em>Woman covers lower half of face with hands</em>] And now you&#8217;ve pissed yourself again? [<em>Woman crosses legs</em>] Women. You&#8217;re leaking, aging, hairy, overweight, and everything hurts &#8211;<br />
[<em>Young boy walks on set in white dress shirt splattered in colorful stains</em>]<br />
<strong>Man&#8217;s voice</strong>: &#8212; and your children&#8217;s clothes are filthy! No wonder men long for other, less clammy women. For God&#8217;s sake, sort yourself out.<br />
[<em>Image appears on screen of assortment of several hundred personal care products, captioned "APPROX $279.99, THE LOT."</em>]<br />
[<em>Woman walks onto set toward couch, with large, bulging full tote bag on one shoulder</em>]<br />
<strong>Woman</strong> [<em>tiredly</em>]: Now I&#8217;m free to live my own life, my way! [<em>falls back onto couch</em>]<br />
[<em>Scene changes to white man in bathroom with razor</em>]<br />
<strong>Man&#8217;s voice</strong>: Men! Shave and get drunk!<br />
[<em>Man has satisfied look on his face as he opens medicine cabinet, finds glass of beer sitting inside, picks it up and smiles smugly, taking a sip</em>]<br />
<strong>Man&#8217;s voice</strong>: Because you&#8217;re already brilliant.<br />
[<em>Man smiles widely at camera as woman's hand appears, groping his chest</em>]</p></blockquote>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><a href="http://ginmar.livejournal.com/1758665.html">ginmar speaks movingly</a> about mental illness, military veterans, and the phenomenon of &#8220;fallen women.&#8221; A few pieces; <a href="http://ginmar.livejournal.com/1758665.html">there&#8217;s much more</a>.</p>
<blockquote><p>It&#8217;s a pain in the ass to experience. Frankly, you&#8217;re no fun to live around during this. I mean, people have been brought up on movie mental illness, where you turn into a sweet, soulful, funny, insightful, tragic, tormented character who Teaches Important Lessons, before dying in a beautiful way that gives the hero or heroine a chance to win an Oscar.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s especially bad if you&#8217;re a woman, because you&#8217;re supposed to live for others, <em>do</em> for others, and do this al behind the scenes. The fact is that women who transgress in some way&#8212;bad mothers, not mothers, convicts, the sick, the non-sexually rebellious&#8212;-are often abandoned. Women are supposed to stand by their man. What goes unsaid, what&#8217;s kept secret is that ill women are resented, dumped, and have to face a dual burden of illness and ill-treatment. There are approximately 6,500 homeless female veterans of this war. Homelessness is often the worst and final stop on the mental illness ladder. It&#8217;s bottom. Then, too, homeless women in general are ignored. When the truth is overwhelmingly awful and about women, people just shrug their shoulders and put it down to life. When women get angry about this treatment, they often find the mentally ill label used to stigmatize them.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">[...]</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Suicide tidied things up neatly. By killing herself, the victim had provided her family with a tragedy over which they could weep, instead of an inconvenient complication who aroused questions that were literally unthinkable for the thinkers of the day. With her gone, so was any reminder.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">[...]</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">What&#8217;s interesting is that both male and female soldiers are often regarded in this way: better a flag-draped coffin than a living, complex, and often angry veteran. What a drag. Better a tragedy than a complication [...]</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">That&#8217;s the work of a certain class. The resentment is very much the attitude of the person who discovers that those who serve are also those who know their worth. That wasn&#8217;t supposed to be part of the deal. You&#8217;re supposed to work round the clock, then disappear when not needed, grateful and humble for scraps from the table.</p>
<p>Which is why maybe soldiers like me, especially women, are often greeted with sadistic gloating when we crumble.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>The Big Screen</title>
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The greatest thing to happen to the world of sports since the advent of the telecast.
During their run for the Stanley Cup in spring 2008, the Pittsburgh Penguins, teamed with Consol Energy and Trib Total Media*, decided to put up a giant LCD screen facing the grassy area outside Mellon Arena, [...]]]></description>
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<p>The greatest thing to happen to the world of sports since the advent of the telecast.</p>
<p>During their run for the Stanley Cup in spring 2008, the Pittsburgh Penguins, teamed with Consol Energy and Trib Total Media*, decided to put up a giant LCD screen facing <a href="http://maps.google.com/maps?f=q&amp;source=s_q&amp;hl=en&amp;geocode=&amp;q=mellon+arena&amp;sll=40.178906,-80.23585&amp;sspn=0.008296,0.016243&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;ll=40.441291,-79.991163&amp;spn=0.000984,0.00203&amp;t=k&amp;z=19">the grassy area</a> <a href="http://maps.google.com/maps?f=q&amp;source=s_q&amp;hl=en&amp;geocode=&amp;q=mellon+arena&amp;sll=40.178906,-80.23585&amp;sspn=0.008296,0.016243&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;ll=40.440848,-79.991691&amp;spn=0,359.991878&amp;t=h&amp;z=17&amp;layer=c&amp;cbll=40.440759,-79.991645&amp;panoid=kK2LBnLkkJNzP_Kidrf59g&amp;cbp=12,29.357358830004184,,0,-3.5601056803170414">outside Mellon Arena</a>, so that fans without tickets to the game could stop by &#8212; or camp out &#8212; and watch the game. For free.</p>
<p>Every game (weather permitting), home and away, was shown on the Big Screen. And fans responded. The place was packed. The energy was incredible. Even better the chance to gather and watch the games that did not take place on home ice.</p>
<p>As entrance (such as it was) was free, the team collected no direct revenue. But they set up concessions &#8212; barbecue grill and so forth &#8212; and made a good penny off of that. But you could still bring your own food, non-alcoholic drink, your own chairs/blankets/accommodations, and so forth. It was an open and free atmosphere. The area was not roped off, not guarded, not ticketed.</p>
<p>And it&#8217;s the most freaking genius thing <em>ever</em>. Yeah, they weren&#8217;t gonna make a buck off tickets, but they drew a whole lot of fans to the arena. They fanned the flame of fandom, cementing enthusiasm for hockey in the budding fanbase of Pittsburgh &#8212; an area that previously cared only about its precious Steelers. (My husband, a Pirates fan, has quite the complex about this, and I actually share his distaste for antagonistic element of Pittsburgh football fandom.) They found a way to make money off of local fans even when the team was playing an away game. And for once, more people than those who could afford the price of playoff hockey tix were able to gather in support of their team.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s playoff season again in Pittsburgh. We never would&#8217;ve thought it two months previous, when the Penguins were in such a slump that they <em>aspired</em> to a tenth-place finish in the Eastern Conference, but their fortunes rose and here they are: first round against their bitter rivals the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philadelphia_Flyers#1972.E2.80.931976">Broad Street Bullies</a>. If there&#8217;s one way to draw a crowd to a Penguins game, it&#8217;s to play against the hated Philadelphia Flyers! (I think it betrays Philly&#8217;s inferiority complex: why would they care so much about little ol&#8217; Pittsburgh if they did not see us as a threat? Ha.) And fortune indeed shone upon us: the Pens get the home ice advantage.</p>
<p>And the team was smart enough to agree to put up the Big Screen again this year! A fan can&#8217;t help but be excited. Having had my share of bad experiences with booking overlord Ticketmaster, and being newly unemployed, I can&#8217;t exactly afford the price of playoff tickets. But I can afford the two-dollar T fare up into the city. And indeed, we are planning to go to every game possible. Because it&#8217;s an incredible experience, one I wouldn&#8217;t miss for all the world. I will always cherish the memories of the games we were able to attend last season, when I was new to the city, settling in to my new home. Forming an identity.</p>
<p>And I&#8217;m glad someone had the bright idea to do it. I can&#8217;t wait til tomorrow night.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/amandanwpa/sets/72157616756978276/">See scenes from the May 4, 2008 game against the Rangers pictured above in my Flickr stream</a>.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: xx-small;">* Yeah, I&#8217;m not happy that my hockey team&#8217;s <a href="http://hockey.ballparks.com/NHL/PittsburghPenguins/newindex.htm">fortunes were sold to**</a> Big Coal. And I know progressives aren&#8217;t a huge fan of the Scaife media. But one out of three isn&#8217;t bad, right?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: xx-small;">** God, I&#8217;m going to miss Mellon Arena. Oldest arena in the country, and the city sees that as a bad thing. I love that fucking place, inaccessible as it is (and <em>O</em>, is it inaccessible!). But I&#8217;m still both a hockey newb and a swPA transplant, so <em>I</em> don&#8217;t get to make that call. Unfortunately.</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I hear it in just about every political commercial now. What does it mean?
&#8220;He shares our values&#8230;&#8221;
&#8220;Family values&#8221;
&#8220;American values&#8221;
&#8220;Traditional values&#8221;
If nothing else, this election season makes one thing quite clear: in a sociopolitical context, the word &#8220;values&#8221; is nothing more than a code word for &#8220;white.&#8221;
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I hear it in just about every political commercial now. What does it mean?</p>
<p>&#8220;He shares our values&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Family values&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;American values&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Traditional values&#8221;</p>
<p>If nothing else, this election season makes one thing quite clear: in a sociopolitical context, the word &#8220;values&#8221; is nothing more than a code word for &#8220;<strong>white</strong>.&#8221;</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My writing has fallen to the side as we go through something of a personal crisis. I hate declaring hiatus; closing off a door, any door, leaves me feeling cramped and constrained. But, yes, things are in a bit of upheaval at current time, and my participation in this amazing community will be limited for a time.</p>
<p><a href="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/img_3118.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-thumbnail wp-image-330" title="img_3118" src="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/img_3118-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a><a href="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/img_27851.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-thumbnail wp-image-329" title="img_27851" src="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/img_27851-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a><br />
<span style="font-size: xx-small;">my body, and everything i use to take care of it.</span></p>
<p>Tomorrow is <a href="http://loveyourbody.nowfoundation.org/">Love Your Body Day</a>. The boundaries defining NOW, the sponsoring organization, are widely known to be drawn (conveniently) around the Western ideal of the financially privileged white life. But, much like feminism as a whole, I feel there is something of value at the core, something of use to all of us.</p>
<p>I find little use in campaigns and projects claiming to sprout from a respect and appreciation of the human body, which decry an unfair media ideal, but whose aim seems to be &#8212; not to deconstruct that ideal in an attempt to destroy any ideal whatsoever &#8212; but to deconstruct that ideal so as to replace it with one more conveniently molded to their own experience.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/walkowiak.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-332" title="walkowiak" src="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/walkowiak-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a><a href="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/wollny.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-333" title="wollny" src="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/wollny-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a><a href="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/roda.gif"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-334" title="roda" src="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/roda-150x150.gif" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a></p>
<p>I do not want to replace the size zero ideal with a size six ideal. I do not want to look at the impossibly tiny waists and replace them with well-defined waists always significantly thinner than their accompanying hips and bosom. I don&#8217;t want to look at the airbrushed, overtanned, bleached blonde ideal and replace it with an ideal that includes pores and a range of hair color, but only on caucasian and white-skinned bodies, which are still skinny and perfectly toned, with smooth caucasian hair that&#8217;s allowed to be stick straight to a little wavy, and always the bright open eyes and blinding smile, always a smile.</p>
<p>Instead of an ideal, instead of merely shifted expectations &#8212; we need to blow that ideal to pieces, and in its place, put a purposeful lack of expectation, put a willingness to consider, put a confident knowledge that one may be faced with anything, anything, and put a curiosity, a sense of wonder, an ability to <em>find</em> beauty, rather than have it delivered.</p>
<p>Bodies, bodies, bodies. When we tell one person her body is beautiful because it <em>is not</em> this, or that, or that other thing, we tell another person whose body <em>is</em> one of those things that her body is <em>not</em> beautiful. When we tell one person her body is what we should be celebrating, we tell every other person whose body is different that they are still deficient &#8212; only in a different way.</p>
<p>(And as an aside: when we tell one person that <em>real</em> beauty is <em>natural</em> beauty, no modifications, no adaptations, no change whatsoever &#8212; we tell every other person on earth, every person who ever does any single thing to change their body, how it looks, what it does, how it feels &#8212; we tell them that <em>they</em> are not only deficient &#8212; they are committing a grave moral sin. Do you use mascara? Have you ever cut your hair? Why do you eat what you eat? Have you ever taken any sort of medication, for anything from a cold to cancer? Ever visited a doctor, therapist, or other practicioner? Ever injured yourself, and applied an antibiotic and bandage, or a set and cast, to make your body do something it would otherwise not do on its own? Do you wear glasses or contact lenses? Do you wear shoes? Do you shave? Well then.)</p>
<p>Instead, we should tell each person: you are a full, whole, valuable person. Look into yourself. Curl up deep within yourself, forsaking the outside world. And look around. What do you like? What feels good? What does good? What is it about your physical self that makes your life a little bit better?</p>
<p>Maybe it is how your body looks. Maybe it is what your body does. Maybe it is how your body feels. Maybe it is not any of these things. Maybe it is something else.</p>
<p>Look at your body, look at it, every day, look at it and think to yourself, and seek out that which is good. Good. Not good for them. Good for <em>you</em>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/aguilar.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-340" title="aguilar" src="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/aguilar-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a><a href="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/davenport.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-338" title="davenport" src="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/davenport-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a><a href="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/erinmortenson.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-336" title="erinmortenson" src="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/erinmortenson-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a><a href="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/dickinson.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-337" title="dickinson" src="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/dickinson-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a><a href="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/ruby.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-339" title="ruby" src="http://threeriversblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/ruby-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a></p>
<p>What do you delight in?</p>
<p>What <em>will</em> you?</p>
<p>Body image is a question not only for just-under-average-sized upper class white girls and women. Body issue is a question for all of us. Women and men alike. People of color, mixed races, different cultures with different values. The fully abled, the disabled, the deformed, the deficient. Every one of us, as human beings, has to deal with the reality of our bodies as they are and how that conflicts with the expectations the rest of our society has of us. This is expressed in different ways for different persons and different society. But not one of us, not <em>one</em>, is unaffected.</p>
<p>So I invited everyone, even those who know they are not NOW&#8217;s target demographic &#8212; I invite you all to participate tomorrow. Seek peace with your body. After all, you can never escape it. But your body is not your adversary. Your body is <em>you</em>.</p>
<p>Love yourself.</p>
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